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By Dr. Robert Stackpole, STD (Sep 15, 2013)
Over the past few months I have had several questions come in from different parts of the world regarding the sins of previous generations in our own families, and how those might affect us today. One woman named Gloria wrote:

Some people say that the effects of sin can be passed on from the mother to the baby in the womb, even to the third and fourth generation (Ex 20:5). How can an unborn baby take upon itself the responsibility of someone else's sins when it has no reasoning power?

From Ireland, a woman named Winifred sent me this detailed explanation of what is going on in her part of the world:

Here in Ireland there is a huge movement of Family Tree Masses, or Generational Masses, being said all over the country. I myself understand from reading the Bible that it is a good and wholesome thing to pray for the dead (2 Macc 12:43-46). But a great many people whom I speak to tend to believe that a lot of their difficulties are similar to the "sins of the father" and people believe their problems are due to similar problems which their parents, grandparents, and great grandparents had, and as a result that is why they are suffering and having various difficulties. Surely, people have to take responsibility for their own problems, ask the help of the Holy Spirit to help them look into their souls and confess their sins.

Praying for the dead is, of course, something we should do, but can people atone for other people's sins? Must people both deceased and alive atone to the Lord for their own sins? ...

Some priests say to pray not only for departed souls but to our faithful departed, while other priests say not to pray to our faithful departed since we have no indication whether they are in heaven or not. Can you throw any light on this?

Well, Winifred, I will try my best.

First, with regard to asking the faithful departed to pray for us, the Church has not defined whether or not the souls in purgatory can hear our prayers. Saint Thomas Aquinas believed that it was part of their process of purgation that they could not (Summa Theologiae II-II, 83, 11). However, regional synods of Catholic bishops in Vienna (1858) and Utrecht (1865) taught that these holy souls can indeed help us by their intercessions, and Pope Leo XIII ratified an indulgenced prayer in 1889 that appealed to the prayers of the poor souls in purgatory when we are in bodily or spiritual danger. There is a longstanding custom among the faithful in many parts of the world to invoke the holy souls in purgatory, which is not likely to be the case unless the Holy Spirit that lives within the hearts of the faithful was somehow behind this custom. On balance, then, it is certainly possible — perhaps even probable —that they can hear our prayers, and therefore one is not being imprudent if one does ask the prayers of faithful departed loved ones. We may not know for sure where they are in the next life (e.g., still undergoing spiritual healing and purgation in purgatory, or in heaven), but as long as one has good reasons to believe that the person died in repentance and faith it can do no harm to ask for their prayers. Indeed, it may open a door to them to enable them to love and help us.

Regarding the central issue that both Winifred and Gloria bring up, their inclinations are correct, I think. God does not hold children, or present generations, morally responsible for the sins of their parents and ancestors. This is clearly laid out in Holy Scripture when the Israelites were blaming their troubles on the sins of their forefathers (see Jer 23:5-6). In the book of the prophet Ezekiel, chapter 18, verses 1-4, we read:

The Word of the Lord came to me again: "What do you mean by repeating this proverb concerning the land of Israel, 'The Fathers have eaten sour grapes, and the children's teeth are set on edge?' As I live, says the Lord God, this proverb shall no more be used by you in Israel. Behold, all souls are mine; the soul of the father as well as the soul of the son is mine: that soul that sins shall die."

So, despite the ancient temptation to blame our ancestors for our sins and misfortunes, we are each morally responsible for our own sins in the eyes of God. Indeed, we need to look into our own hearts and ask the Holy Spirit to help us repent so that we can find forgiveness and spiritual healing. God is surely not so unjust as to force children (including infants, who have not attained the age of reason and therefore have not committed any voluntary sins of their own) to "pay" in justice for the sins of others.

On the other hand, it is also true to say that the sins of our ancestors — right back to our first parents, Adam and Eve — do affect our lives today and leave us inheriting some pretty heavy baggage to carry around. First of all, there is the inherited "wound" of original sin that is passed down to all of us from the Fall of Adam and Eve. They were the fountainhead of the whole human race, and when they turned their backs on God, they cut off themselves, and their whole progeny, from the life-giving, original gift of the Holy Spirit. They initiated a deprivation of spiritual life that left us all inheriting a human condition in which we are subject to suffering and death, disordered desires, weakened will power, and the clouding of the mind from the truth about God (see Catechism of the Catholic Church, 404-405). God does not hold us all "morally responsible" for the Fall of Adam, of course, but He did create us as an interdependent race so that we can suffer both spiritually and bodily from the sins of others. We may think this unfair, but remember that the interdependence of the human race is also the source of most of our highest blessings, for example, the solidarity and intimacy of family life and the communion of love and grace in which we participate as members of the Body of Christ. To make such supreme blessings possible to creatures with free will like us, the Lord also had to permit us to misuse that freedom and interdependence, with all its tragic results.

This "interdependence" of the human race also means that the sins of ancestors and parents can affect us in other, more subtle ways (and this is surely the truth behind the Lord's saying in Exodus 20:5 that He "visits the sins" of the parents on their children to the third and fourth generation). For example, some destructive conditions (such as alcoholism, depression, and irascibility) can be passed down to us in our genetic inheritance. Moreover, the problems of our immediate parents and grandparents can be passed down to us in other ways, too, such as if they set a bad moral example for us of giving in to those destructive, inherited dispositions (as, sadly, people tend to do from generation to generation), or if they abused our bodies or failed to give us the love we needed when we are growing up. In such instances, we can become "saddled" with emotional and developmental scars. For instance, if we weren't given the love we needed as children, we may spend our lives struggling to learn how to love others and ourselves. This does not make them fully "responsible" for our sins and all our problems today, of course, and we have the responsibility to take action to find healing for these generational wounds ourselves. But, in this sense, healing for the past is certainly an aspect of the Church's ministry of healing prayer today.

As for the question of what we can do to heal past generations of their sins and can we make atonement for them, the answer is yes. If they are in purgatory, we can offer prayers, Masses, and other works of piety and love on their behalf to speed their process of purification. In fact, one of the charisms of the Marians of the Immaculate Conception is to offer their lives for the Holy Souls in Purgatory. This is why they have an Association of Marian Helpers, a spiritual benefit society that embraces this same charism to pray for the deceased.

Jesus Christ merited on the cross the forgiveness and sanctification of the whole world, but when people fail to fully receive that gift from Him, through repentance and faith — i.e., if their contrition for sin and love for God was "half-hearted" in this life — then they remain in partial moral debt to God (still owing, in theological jargon, "the temporal punishment for sin"). So by the grace and merits of Christ we can obtain further graces of contrition for them, and help relieve that moral debt. If this is what the offering of "Family Tree" Masses and "Generational" Masses means in Ireland today, then I see nothing but good in it. It is just another way of praying for the dead. But if people think that they are thereby magically warding off the evil effects on their lives of the sins of their ancestors (effects such as I have described above), or "paying" for their ancestors' sins in ritual ways so that God will not make them "pay" for their ancestors' sins in real life, then I am afraid they are afflicted by superstition and a false view of God's justice. He does not force anyone to pay for the sins of anyone else, and in most cases, the ill effects of the evils of past generations on us today are best dealt with by Christian counseling and healing prayer.

Thus, the mercy of God can both pardon and heal the sinful hearts of our faithful departed ancestors, and heal us of the ill effects of any of their sins that we suffer from today. That is definitely part of what our Lord meant when He said to St. Faustina: "My Mercy is greater than your sins, and those of the entire world" (Diary of St. Faustina, 1485).

Robert Stackpole, STD, is director of the John Paul II Institute of Divine Mercy. His latest book is Divine Mercy: A Guide from Genesis to Benedict XVI (Marian Press). Got a question? E-mail him at [email protected].

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ProfPaul - May 13, 2019

I know JESUS died for our sins and he is our Savior but I also know he allows for us to suffer and go through trials so that we can be purified and be ready to meet him face to face when he calls us home. I understand when we surrender our trials and tribulations to the LORD that helps us get closer to him and we are also sharing in the suffering he went through here on EARTH! He was a man without SIN because he is the SON of the FATHER but he was crucified and treated like a criminal. May GOD continue to have MERCY on us for all the sins we have committed and to also have MERCY on the sins of our Ancestors. This is why ALL SOULS DAY is so important to me and my parents. My parents have also already passed but they were married on ALL SOULS DAY in the mid 1930's. THANK YOU JESUS FOR YOUR DIVINE MERCY!!!

ProfPaul - May 13, 2019

I am going through a similar situation. It seems like the same thing that happened to my Grandfather is happening to me. My Grandfather was a very talented man and he struggled as a youngster. At age 28, he almost lost everything. He worked every kind of mining and construction job just to end his life at age 78 having to work at full throttle because there was no retirement money for him. The same exact thing has happened to me at age 65 almost 100 years later. I am a very educated man and here I am struggling to make ends meet just the way my Grandfather did the last few years of his life. I also carry his first name. Then to make things even worse, it seems that my Great Grandfather committed an atrocity in the early 1860's that now I am paying for. I could elaborate more but it is pretty sad and I am not willing to describe the details of the atrocity. Maybe in a private email, I can elaborate more. What I do see, is that Great Grandchildren and Grandchildren pay for the atrocities and sins their ancestors committed. I am a Great Believer in the Mercy of God. I have been a Marian all of my adult life and I have great reverence for Our Lady of Guadalupe and mother Mary. To learn more about my reverence, visit this link and learn about the song I wrote about Our Lady of Guadalupe: https://www.reverbnation.com/professorpaul247/song/15609991-virjencita-mi-maria-author-paul

Proud to be Catholic - Jun 28, 2017

Thank you so much for putting it in words that I can respectfully respond to my superstitious sister who is in a different religion.she says that the sins of our mother falls onto her son so is the reason why my nephew (her son)makes "stupid" mistakes. You keep the light on our Saviour Jesus Christ whom came down from Heaven, suffered as one of us then died to save us...Bless you and the works you do

Fred - Jun 9, 2017

Healing of the family tree is biblical. If you say Jesus Christ done away with the old testament clearly attack Jesus, in his words he says,

Matthew 5:17 - 18

17 "Think not that I have come to abolish the law and the prophets; I have come not to abolish them but to fulfill them.
18 For truly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the law until all is accomplished.

In the New Testament, Jesus talks about the blood of the prophets killed in previous generations being brought to bear on the current generation in Jerusalem (Matthew 23:29-36 and Luke 11:47-51)

Lamentations 5: 7: "Our forefathers have sinned and are now dead, and we bear their punishment."

Pope John Paul II in his Apostolic Letter, "Adveniente Millennio Tertio," made affirming statements regarding the need to heal the effects in us in the present resulting from sins committed in past generations. He urged the Bible-based mentality of Leviticus 26:40: “Confess your iniquity and the iniquity of your ancestors.”

We can't blame our ancestors forever thing, our personal sin separate us from God and His blessings. But unconfessed sin brings curses.

Baptism heals us from original sin but not the effects of it. This one sin has effected the whole of humanity so why is it hard to understand that certain grave sins can curses generations, it not venial sin but gravity of Thier sins like witchcraft etc can cause great damages to current and future family members.

If you're mother who is alive practice witchcraft and who are living the Christian faith, you don't think if she is putting spells on you wouldn't effect you, not everything God does protect us if we are in Hus graces but what if you are not Christian her actions will effect you way worse. So same thing happened to future generation because of her evil live.

I could write way more to explain the biblical sources and spirituality of healing of the family tree which doesn't go against catholic teaching or theology.

God bless you Fred

IV - Mar 2, 2017

Thank you for the clarity of your answer. It really helped.

Anne Sept 25,2016 - Sep 25, 2016

Mike,read "An Exorcist Tells His Story by Fr Gabriele Amorth" Ignatius Press San Francisco, who was chief exorcist of Rome, he writes about your problem the sudden & unexplained break ups and deaths before marriage or success in his book.Satan is causing the break ups of relationships,deaths and mishaps. Find a Catholic Priest Exorcist to assist your Family.

AngelaK - Feb 17, 2016

How utterly disturbing to see that so many commenting here didn't actually read the article and are actually asking for prayers for the healing of their family tree. …If you are one one those, please read or re-read the article.

This movement is spreading like wildfire. We already have all that is necessary at our disposal to heal and protect our family in Christ through the Church without adding the confusion and danger of leading astray weak souls. We have prayer novenas, confession, Eucharist, we have Christ, His mother, and ALL of the angels and saints.

WHO read the article?

Thank you for this insight!

Teresa - Feb 14, 2016

Praise the Lord for your explanation..
Very enlightening, very gracious and my heart felt peace as I got this new gift of knowledge from your teaching; with scriptural and CCC basis. thanks and God bless you more.

Andrew - Sep 30, 2015

O my goodness! From these comments it seems like few understood the article or read it for that matter :(

Karen - Jun 30, 2015

Hi Mike, please visit this website:http://healingoffamilies.com
I attended Fr. Yozefu's Healing of the Family seminar and found it tremendously helpful. Like you, we've had recurring misfortune in the family and I went to the seminar hoping that I would be able to make sense of it all. I'm happy to say that I did and found a way of praying for my entire family tree.

siobhan - Jun 19, 2015

my mother is seriously ill and i am trying to find a healing priest who couldbless her and cure her i know miracles happen and we need one

Mike - Dec 9, 2014

I was born and baptized Catholic. As I grew up, I became an atheist because whenever I was about to succeed or have a good relationship with a woman, something crazy and out of my control would happen. Then I had an experience with Christ (14 years ago) and have been doing ministry ever since around the world. The problem is that my male relatives keep dying (they were baptized Catholic as well) just before they are married or have success stolen (sometimes literally) just before they succeed financially. The few times I have dated since being saved, the same horrible things keep happening, severe rejection from the girl or her family that is unprovoked and for no reason or the girl suddenly becomes "crazy" and admits that she hasn't been that way since she was younger or has never acted that way. I really need help here. My cousin just passed away from a sudden and unexpected stroke just before getting married in his 40s. I am 38 now and tired of acting like there is no curse in my family when clearly there is. If anyone could help me please give me some advice.

Carole - Apr 18, 2013

With regard to whether the faithfully departed can intercede for us. I was very close to my grandmother who lived with our family for several years when I was a young child. I was bereft having a miscarriage with my first pregnancy after two years of marriage. The following year my son was born on the 5th anniversary of my grandmother's passing. Her oldest son passed into eternal life on the 21st anniversary of her passing.

imma eadm cebu, phils. - Jul 11, 2011

i agree with you Robert...masses is very important for the soul in purgatory...and we should do our part to attend healing of family tree, generational and intergenerational healing...healing is a long process and we should submit ourselves to healing..

belen dy uchi - Jun 21, 2009

my family ancestors are chinese, japanese, spanish, filipino that's why I am catholic. but my ancstors who are buddhist has something to do with my illness spiritually speaking. i am bothered. please pray for me and we need generational healing of my family tree. God bless and thank you very much.

Carlos - Jun 19, 2009

Many years back, there were Roman Catholic priest performing intergenerational healing. But they stopped because the process was heavy. Is it true then that the sins of the generations can be healed or forgiven through prayer of present generation?

Una (Ireland) - Jun 4, 2009

Robert,thank you so much for your wonderful explanation of "sins of past generations" It certainly clears a lot of confusion for me and no doubt, it will do so for many others.
God Bless you,it is wonderful to have such a wonderful Blessed plateform to have a question and answer service, more especially when the questions are answered from a true Catholic prospective. We need this so much to day since there is so much confusion all around us.
God Bless and reward you for using the Gifts which God has Blessed you with.

maryS - Jun 3, 2009

thank you so much,for the great explanations of the topic I read it by heart because it also apply here in our place Davao City, I will share this to my friends so that they may understand fully,because I know many are doubting of their sins they have,God bless,May God be with you always.